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Hmm kitty upset hmm

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HappyKitty

HappyKitty

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I have 2 awesome close real life friends and their birthday is on 11/11 and 27/11. They have been so nice with kitty and even good listening ears who have never ditched me even if I want to bail them because of my mental health yet, they are still here with kitty after 20 years..... kitty feels like a bad friend.

Kitty dont know what to give them for their birthday... They dont expect anything but... Kitty havent give them anything. Kitty still wants... They both have given kitty gifts on my kitty birthday and kitty havent give them anything. 😫🥺

I am not good at love and all this feelings...
 
BarryW

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Hi kitty,

I also struggle with gift giving. Well, I used to, when I had closer friends, instead of hiding away from the world. But point is I understand it can be tough to decide on a gift. Have you considered getting them something that is used up instead of kept for years? Example: pay for their meal at nice restaurant, or pay for them to go to some event (not sure on price range for you, could be movie, or concert, theatre etc).

The benefit of this kind of gift is that you don't have to worry about what they might think about it for years while they look at it or use it. It's just a one-time experience gift.

Otherwise all I can suggest is try to take note when they are talking about things they have expressed interest in trying or having, but they haven't actually bought it. If you visit their houses maybe you see things that are broken or missing and you can think about getting it as a gift later.
 
Champagne

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Hi sweet kitty, I really love may's idea. You are a great artist so put that imagination and talent to good use. Have you got a plain cup? Or plain bowl? Or plain t-shirt? If so draw/paint something they like, that will be the most meaningful gift ever. Or put their name and date of birth along with a painted kitty on it?

If you have a little money to spend there are lots of websites where you can get personalised gifts with their pictures on them that include you, that will be a keepsake for them.

Don't feel bad hun, you are very good with all ''this love and feelings''. I get those friendly vibes from you all the time, sweet kitty.

If you need more ideas feel free to tell us.

Personally, I just go with perfume or make-up for my sisters or jewellery as that's what we've always exchanged but do what you find meaningful.
 
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HappyKitty

HappyKitty

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Champagne said:
If you have a little money to spend there are lots of websites where you can get personalised gifts with their pictures on them that include you, that will be a keepsake for them.
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Ooooo this is the best idea!!!
Others are good too. Like I can have a dinner with them after my docs appointment and give them the photo memory of us how we first met tgt.

Thanks everyone *hug
 
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