I really need to know. I was holding off asking this question because I assume I kind of know all of the possible things I can do already... but it's been a year. Nothing is working- there are things I kind of refuse to try for moral reasons... My situation is the same; I remain locked in my room- but I am SO SICK of thinking about him all the time. My Ex and I were together for 8 years, he was the only person I was ever sexually attracted to in my life and the only person I allowed myself to fall in love with... but I can't seem to 'fall out of love' < I'm beginning to think that that phrase is complete bullshit. Apparently though... he was able to get over me in 2 months. ...and I am soo hopeless... T__T Please help me? What would you do in this situation?