How can I stop bitching at my boyfriend?

Discussion in 'Family, Friends and Relationships' started by candiz, Jan 16, 2009.

  1. candiz

    candiz Active Member

    I care about my boyfriend but when my mood is low I bitch! What can I do to change this habit? :sad:
  2. DrowningInTears

    DrowningInTears Well-Known Member

    hmm i dunno im a guy so dont relly know, but next time you feel like bitching just hug him and squeeze him and say something nice instead, if i was him i would like that.
  3. Panos

    Panos Well-Known Member

    i would suggest you explain to him your situation and let him decide what to do. stay and get bitched, or let you calm down ur own way.
  4. Petal

    Petal SF dreamer Staff Member Safety & Support SF Supporter

    When you feel like having a go at him just walk away, cool down and relax then go back and give him a hug and tell him you're sorry :)
  5. Alexpt2

    Alexpt2 Well-Known Member

    Everyone bitches when they're in a bad mood. If he loves you, he won't hold it against you.
  6. Earn

    Earn Well-Known Member

    warn him when your mood is low and you might be a bit bitchy. maybe try bitching about things on a piece of paper or in a notebook.or try taking a deep breath and counting to ten or 20.i know it might now be an anger issue maybe try looking up anger management techniques and use them when you get bitchy.
  7. Mikeintx

    Mikeintx Well-Known Member

    Find a new boyfriend maybe that doesnt take it? Sometimes people just need someone to give a lil pushback and you'll cut it out if you know he wont stand for it.
  8. bEvans

    bEvans Active Member

    It's common for Woman to bitch when the ovaries are messing with the mind. The best ones have self-control. Are you that good?
  9. Entoloma43

    Entoloma43 Well-Known Member

    Step 1) Realize your mood is low
    Step 2) Don't bitch at your boyfriend