So how can you tell when a friend doesn't want to be your friend anymore?? What signs are there and what can I do to find out? Basically I ask this because I have a friend who doesn't ever really contact me, I always have to contact them. And recently, they have been acting a bit strange, like not talking much to me and not asking me to hang out anymore. I have to initiate it and if I don't, I feel like they wouldn't even ask me anymore. I don't know if I'm just being paranoid or they are trying to give me signs. So what should I do? I don't want to be the "friend" who just doesn't get the message and keeps coming back to where I'm not wanted. Does anybody have any answers or suggestions? Or has anybody been in a similiar situation?