I've had people (and I know I am) tell me I am too much of a perfectionist (stupid... "too much?" you are or you aren't) and they are correct in that I am a black-or-white, all-or-nothing person. When I asked this person for suggestions to help me get over it, he said: "Just re-define the word: Good." That is beyond idiocy. Good means good. If it has flaws, it's not good. Everything has flaws. Nothing is good. Why people can't see the logic here is beyond me. I can re-define rape as love, but that will never change the fact that performing those types of actions are a bad thing. Any suggestions?