I was friends with a guy for about 7 years, and I never told him how I felt about him. Now that he is no longer a part of my life, I regretted not telling him. I told myself I would never go through that again, that I would never hold in my true feelings. I recently told someone how I felt about him after he admitted he could easily fall for me. I know he likes me for who I am, but it's hard for me to show my true self. I mean I tell him the negative aspects of my life and I feel like such a loser for talking about it. But this insecurity extends to all aspects of my life....I'm constantly saying I'm sorry if I think I did the slightest thing wrong, even though I did nothing at all most times. I'm worried people are judging me, or think I'm a loser or freak for speaking my mind. I have to second guess everything I do and say, and it gets exhausting living in a constant state of being unsure. Has anyone else dealt with this, and if so, is there any way to get over it, or to lessen it?