so i've found my true love at last. he is the best thing that has ever happened to me and he makes me happier than i ever have before. the only problem is that lately i've been having urges to cut, and i don't know how to tell him. he knows that i've cut before, but how do i tell him i want to cut right now? i've told him that i feel a bit down and i'm getting stressed about all the thoughts that never seem to leave my mind. i know if i tell him he's probably going to say "i'm sorry honey, i wish i could help you." how do i get the message through to him that i need him to be here with me without being so blunt about it? i don't want to seem desperate, but i'm running out of options. what do i do now?