i honestly need an answer, or a solution. basically im depressed about losing someone dear to me and it just feels so empty without that person. and i have to get over this person and forget about them. how? how can one just set such a thing aside. tell me, has anyone here been indirectly in denial and just busied themselves as much as they could so they wont have to think about reality? when im busy i dont think about these things and when im alone and think about it.. i just get smacked in the face and realize the truth. please how do you get over it? how do you put it behind you when you can just keep it away. i dont see how i can get over this issue of mine. what gets me through day to day is looking forward to things; one main thing was this person i lost, another is small things im using to keep me going. honestly just busying myself to ignore these issues dont help. finding a replacement wont help. im in such denial about this person i lost. i just cant let go and move on. how do any of you deal with this? if you were in this situation. im sure theres other people that are in somewhat the same situation, busying themselves and what not. what can i do to just get over this. sigh i never thought id talk so much on this forum but here i am. thanks.