I have a question for those of you with a partner/spouse: How does it work? Like, how did you attract them/how did they attract you? I've never been considered attractive before. Any time i try to meet new people, they don't even acknowledge i exist. And on the rare chance they do, they just look down on me. Even when a miracle happens and they actually talk to me, something horrible goes wrong. So far I've had: a girl turning hostile for no reason and turning an entire group of friends against me, a girl turning me down after realising she was gay, only to brag about having a new boyfriend not even a week later, and so many times I've been led on and ghosted once they got bored of me. Being alone is pure misery, yet I've seemingly missed a vital piece of meeting and attracting people that everyone else seems to have gotten. I'm the only person i know who's alone. I'm a complete miserable failure of a human being. And i don't understand where it all went so wrong that I'd end up such a failure when everyone else i know had no trouble succeeding. I just dont understand!