One thing I talk a lot about with my therapist is why I have a complicated relationship with anybody I like sexualy. Since my first experience I have had trouble being intimate and the past years I have completely avoided it the reason being that arousal comes together with sharp pains all over. I think my psychiatrist is kind of clueless and won't give me straight answers when I ask him if he's seen this before or if he thinks it'll get better. We have tried lots of therapies along with different medications and I'm losing hope. Has anyone ever heard of this? I hope this makes sense despite me being a bit foggy tonight.