I feel like I couldn't be into casual sex...I want to have an emotional connection with whoever I am sleeping with. I spent all this time worrying about finding "the one" for me, but should it really mean that much? Am I putting too much stock into a physical act? Half of me feels like I could just go out and have fun, the other half wants me to wait until I find someone who truly loves me. Is it better to wait to sleep with someone until you are in a relationship, or should it just not be taken so seriously?