How many people would say a relationship is what brought them to this forum?

Discussion in 'Family, Friends and Relationships' started by Aurora Gory Alice, May 4, 2010.

  1. Aurora Gory Alice

    Aurora Gory Alice Well-Known Member

    I am just wondering.

    Would you say a relationship (in any context whether it be a failed relationship, abusive relationship, the loss of your partner to suicide/death) is your main reason or part of your reason for being on SF?
     
  2. lightbeam

    lightbeam Antiquities Friend

    A failed marriage is the reason why I am here.
     
  3. Ferret

    Ferret Well-Known Member

    Bad breakup which triggered chronic depression that I've had since a child.
     
  4. whywhy

    whywhy Active Member

    A long term relationship that didn't work out...
     
  5. mdmefontaine

    mdmefontaine Antiquities Friend

    a divorce is what brought me here . . . :rolleyes:
     
  6. aoeu

    aoeu Well-Known Member

    I came here to try to have some other support so I wouldn't load it all on her.
     
  7. ZombiePringle

    ZombiePringle Forum Buddy and Antiquities Friend

    Its part of it for me. Probably my past of relationships ending badly. There's other issues that factor in as well.
     
  8. lost81

    lost81 Staff Alumni

    A lack of one was one of the factors.
     
  9. Bubble

    Bubble Well-Known Member

    Yes indeed
     
  10. Forgotten_Man

    Forgotten_Man Well-Known Member

    Well not initially... however, it is what brought me back
     
  11. shamps

    shamps Well-Known Member

    Well ive had depression for years and tried to kill myself once years ago but this time round its a relationship thats brought me here,a failed one.He cheated and ive lost five years of my life...plus numerous other bad things happening all at once because of it x
     
  12. unwinged

    unwinged Well-Known Member

    maybe the anticipation of an imagined relationship.. that will probably never happen as i'm no longer sure if it should... so i'm here, feeling alone...
     
  13. KittyGirl

    KittyGirl Well-Known Member

    a failed relationship- not being good enough, even after 8 years of trying my hardest to be good enough for him.
     
  14. Forgotten_Man

    Forgotten_Man Well-Known Member

    I have this problem as well.
     
  15. Aurora Gory Alice

    Aurora Gory Alice Well-Known Member

    It's pretty scary how many people are here due to failed relationships.

    For those who are single, does the fact that so many people have said they returned or became suicidal after a relationship broke down scare you out of wanting to get into one?

    I have to admit, it is scaring me a little. I know how unstable I am but I also know how much I want to be with somebody.
    Still... if the break down of a relationship will be that little finger that pushes me over the edge, I may have to think twice about it, as it appears to have done the same to so many on here.
     
  16. 2-D

    2-D Well-Known Member

    This problerly sum things up for me, but in my case it was the straw that broke the camels back :(

    And as to your question aurora, yes it does somewhat, as well as my general feeling of being unworthy of anyones affections, but thats summit different
     
  17. ozbound

    ozbound Senior Member & Antiquities Friend

    I've had depression for as long as I can remember but the break up was the straw that broke the camels back.
     
  18. Forgotten_Man

    Forgotten_Man Well-Known Member

    Right now I am going to say no. If anything I want to get into a relationship again. That way if it fails I will just snap And kill myself.
     
  19. perry_mason

    perry_mason Well-Known Member

    i vwas never in arealtionship with aimee or anything so diont stichmme up but the fact that evertyhing went wrong with her has pretty much made a mess of me.

    im not blaming her so odont say that i am and stuff coz itrs my fault but its my fauly and i need oto forget her or kill myself and i can nevre seem to ever forget about her.
     
  20. Kaos General

    Kaos General Well-Known Member

    a very good friend of mine brought me here but she is no longer with us