It isn't the only way. Living life and getting through your problems is another way. My preferred way. See, once you make this big decision, and make no mistake about it, this is a big decision, you'll never be able to go back. None of us really know what happens when we die, it's a jump in the dark. This isn't like a test. You can't make it up after school, or try harder on your next test. This is your only test. Brace yourself my friend, we are all going through pain. We can only hope for a brighter morning the next day.