So, I'm seeing my new therapist again Monday, and I want to ask her how I should go about dealing with my dad when he goes off on one of his rants. The problem is, she is stubborn. Probably even more so than I am. If I directly ask her about him, she will most likely give me: "Don't let him get under your skin." I would really like to ask her to help me work it out, but I'm not sure how. Any advice? By the way, I really like this therapist, she really knows how to do her job, and I'm not afraid to talk to her, I just want to ask her how to deal with him without sounding like I want her to do something about him.