my friend(she's a girl) last week left her boyfriend. She moved out in a hurry without him knowing because she said he was abusive. Now the more I got to know them,(on both sides) the more I realised that my friend's view of some of the events isn't exactly like she said. I know she had a hard life and was abused before. Anyways, she left him but then in her new appartment, because she had no food, nothing she called him again and said that she meant to move in that place with him but thought he didnt want to. Anyways tonight he drove me home. And he asked me if she had planned on breaking up with him or did she really mean to move out with him. Now, I try to stay out of it but I couldn't lie. I don't like liying and so I told him that she had planned on breaking up with him. Now I feel bad. I so wish I could lie but it's really hard. I only lied well when I lived with my father because he was abusive and I was afraid of him. does that make me a bad friend? I want to be surportive of her but she's always lying and when I confronted her about the boyfriend thing. I had told her don't play with him she told me that she wasn't playing him, that she was indecisive that's all. She lied alot to this man and because of her traumas, she's put him into awkward situations and still he's willing to learn to live with her disabilities. How can I be a good friend when I don't agree with the way she treats him???