I am locked in a relationship with a girl that has feelings for me, but.... Sadly I feel nothing romantic to her, its rather upsetting. I need to get out of this, I can't hurt her by making it seem as though I am losing interest. Recently a male has come up that makes me feel like I'd prefer to be with him....wait...of course I do. However, the girl is a wonderful person on all counts, and I care about her too much to crash this relationship to a halt. I don't want her to see whats going on in my family, she frequently asks why I am so sad most of the time...I've told her very little. I don't want her to worry about me, she has too much on her plate as it is. What is the right thing to do?