How to cope

Discussion in 'Family, Friends and Relationships' started by Cariad_Bach, Jun 25, 2016.

  1. Cariad_Bach

    Cariad_Bach Staff Alumni

    When the person who is supposed to help keep you safe is the person confirming all the reasons in the "do it" column?

    When your self-hated and self-disgust is reflected back to you in his eyes, with his voice.

    When you're fighting with the awful fact that he's seeing the real you. And he hates it. Just as much as you do.
  2. Freya

    Freya Loves SF Staff Member ADMIN

    Do you - outside of this situation - your situation - think it is okay for someone to threaten to leave and emotionally punish the other person in the relationship, for behaving "wrongly" in some way?