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How to find the effort to make myself look respectable/good?

Discussion in 'Rants, Musings and Ideas' started by Petal, Jul 17, 2015.

  1. Petal

    Petal SF dreamer Staff Member Safety & Support SF Supporter

    I have the means to make myself look respectable and even pretty even while over weight.

    Example: I just went to the shop to get dinner, I was wearing very casual clothes and had my long blonde hair up in a bun. I bought a wand last week (curling tongs) and have not even opened the box. My mood is down so I just throw on a tracksuit pants and jacket. I have mountains of make up I could put on and all the time in the world, I have long blonde hair, i could do many things with it, have hair straighteners, pretty clothes.

    I don't want to be worse than casual any more, I want to make an effort and look good. Where in gods name do I find the motivation?
  2. Petal

    Petal SF dreamer Staff Member Safety & Support SF Supporter

  3. Lux

    Lux Well-Known Member

    I know what you mean! I have so much nice stuff and I just cant find the motivation to do anything with it :(
  4. total eclipse

    total eclipse SF Friend Staff Alumni

    accomplish one thing at a time ok if you do not have energy for all of it just do one thing like put make up on or do your hair that will give you incentive to do more.