Son of my mothers' brother... He think that he can "fix" me by forcing me to hang out with him while every time i do, all he does is to get drunk, hot headed and violent. When he is drunk he sometimes mocking me about me sitting alone.. "WHY ARE YOU SITTING IN THERE, COME DRINK AND DANCE!" Im telling him that i don't want to, he ignores and then become all violent threatening me that if i will not drink and dance he will "kick my ass"... Now i guess its a joke, but then again, he is drunk and there is no smile on his face... 2 days ago he invited me to a beach with his friends they were drunk as always, and i told him that ill come but i don't want to swim or anything, so he was like "YOU WILL SWIM!!!" I decided to fight his aggression with aggression so i told him: "im not gonna swim, if you want to fight, lets fight, but you wont like it" so he got pissed and went away while violently pushing one of his friends towards a wall. His wife told me that when he drink he become violent and I cant stand such people (I got whole lot of negative prospective on such people) and its not like i want to completely get rid of him, just not to hang out with him.. thing is that he is a bit ignorant, and he want to start a business so he needs my help (gah he can barely read or write) I agreed to help him and for that he promised me 50% of the income which is good considering the fact that i need money as i want to move to another country. So somehow i have to tell him that i don't want to hang out with him yet to remain in good relations as we are about to be business partners..