My uncle moved in with me and my family in July, since he needed somewhere to stay. I was really happy about him staying here because we've always gotten along pretty well. Then he started being condescending and just saying hurtful things, so I let him know that wasn't appreciated. He got mad and just went off, going in my face screaming and pointing. I don't like it when people are aggressive with me like that. I ended up having a panic attack and he didn't even care. He did some other things worse than that, but it's a long story. Eventually me and my mom decided to just move on and make peace with him. Now he's been acting weird again, staying in his room all the time and not talking to anyone, just leaving sarcastic notes and slamming and banging stuff around. It just feels awkward being around him when he avoids people and gives the silent treatment. He has anger issues, he drinks and spends way too much, and he always takes his problems out on other people. I suggested he get help and he just got more mad. I don't know if I should give up or keep trying. He's not the person I thought he was, but I think at least he should get therapy or whatever else he needs to feel better. He doesn't think he has a problem, so I don't know if it's a lost cause or I should keep trying to help.