how to make it better

[joey1970]

an affair a stupid fucking affair and i've fucked everyone's life up i just need a bit more courage cos then i'm going to top my fucking self cos of all the fucking shit i've caused

 

[dazzle11215]

sorry to read how distressed you are... can you take a little time and reconsider? there are plenty of us hear to listen if you'd like vent ....

suicide is not your *only* option, and you know what? the really courageous thing was posting here.

catherine

 

[A_pixie]

You made a mistake, it's not worth taking your life over though. What happened???

 

[Surviving]

Every one makes mistakes, and you have shown you want to make it better by coming here. A mistake, no matter how big or small, does not spell the end. It can be worked through. Give it some time, and give us a chance to help you...

 

[Esmeralda]

I'm sorry you're going through such a hard time. But don't you think that killing yourself will only make matters worse for the people who love you? No matter how hurt they are because of your actions, killing yourself will only cause people more pain. They will eventually get over what you did, but killing yourself is permanent and is only a way of escaping the pain and guilt you are feeling and will not make life any better for those around you. On the contrary, it will be much, much worse. Don't follow up a selfish act (the affair) by another selfish act (your suicide). It will take some time to work through this, but it will be worth it both for you and for those around you. If you really care about these people, you will not take your own life, instead, you will do your best to make amends and move on.

 

[Petal]

hope you feel better soon :hug: