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I think for some reason he got the impression that I'm a high maintained girl or something because he freaked out when I picked the food court mall for our meet up. I'm not expecting him to pay for me but I think he wants to be a gentleman and pay for the food but scared that I might get something overpriced that he couldn't afford. honestly I just want to eat and talk about stuff to him. well that seems too much to ask for.
I think for some reason he got the impression that I'm a high maintained girl or something because he freaked out when I picked the food court mall for our meet up. I'm not expecting him to pay for me but I think he wants to be a gentleman and pay for the food but scared that I might get something overpriced that he couldn't afford. honestly I just want to eat and talk about stuff to him. well that seems too much to ask for.
I'm truly sorry especially when you've been waiting to hear from him for 2 weeks and the fact you wanted to talk to him I'm sorry you didn't get what you wanted/needed.
What did he say to you that you think scared him off. Where did you pick to eat that he thinks expensive. I'm from UK so I'm not really familiar with US mall food places.
Really hope your ok I know how excited you were to talk to him.
I know it's not much but if you need or want to talk to someone if you cant or got anybody to talk to I'm on here I'm not perfect I'm weird well i think it's better to be weird than be normal being weird is so much fun and very interesting 🤣. If you do feel like talking I'm all ears can talk about anything movies,music,life etc. 🤗
It's such a amazing beautiful day, suns out birds are eating my bread my 2 stalkers are out in garden sat in a chair watching my window 🙄 just made a panni breakfast mmmmm sausage egg 🤤. Yep definitely a weird boy jesus would be so proud..
What did he say to you that you think scared him off. Where did you pick to eat that he thinks expensive. I'm from UK so I'm not really familiar with US mall food places.
Really hope your ok I know how excited you were to talk to him.
I know it's not much but if you need or want to talk to someone if you cant or got anybody to talk to I'm on here I'm not perfect I'm weird well i think it's better to be weird than be normal being weird is so much fun and very interesting 🤣. If you do feel like talking I'm all ears can talk about anything movies,music,life etc. 🤗
It's such a amazing beautiful day, suns out birds are eating my bread my 2 stalkers are out in garden sat in a chair watching my window 🙄 just made a panni breakfast mmmmm sausage egg 🤤. Yep definitely a weird boy jesus would be so proud..
Thank you so much! @shadowrider 
yeh I'm not that sad, in fact, I don't think I am sad? I think just a bit disappointed, maybe? It's like, oh not again. lol. I don't want to think that all guys are the same, I think I just haven't found "the one" yet. Haha.
I mean, it's always a good thing when you know it's not worth it from the beginning, so you don't waste that much of your precious time, you know?
I picked food court because there's a lot of options. Maybe he could pick something that he could afford because there's a lot of options, right? Btw, I'm not from the US, and I've been to the UK, but don't think I've seen food courts, let alone malls in the UK lol.
And I am glad you're having an amazing day!
yeh I'm not that sad, in fact, I don't think I am sad? I think just a bit disappointed, maybe? It's like, oh not again. lol. I don't want to think that all guys are the same, I think I just haven't found "the one" yet. Haha. I mean, it's always a good thing when you know it's not worth it from the beginning, so you don't waste that much of your precious time, you know?
I picked food court because there's a lot of options. Maybe he could pick something that he could afford because there's a lot of options, right? Btw, I'm not from the US, and I've been to the UK, but don't think I've seen food courts, let alone malls in the UK lol.
And I am glad you're having an amazing day!
It is disappointing when you talk to a guy and they end up being like the others that you've talked to its annoying cos you start thinking is every guy out there like that. But don't worry there are guys out there that's better than them just have to try and be patience you will find that one guy and all that waiting will be so worth it. It's good that you've decided not to give up and that your still optimistic that all guys are not the same. As iv said before iv not been with anyone since 2017 my own choice but I have been approached many times which I don't enjoy especially when I tell them why I'm not giving my number. Im not attractive one bit but everytime I get interrupted by girls they all literally everyone of them start saying omg 😱 I love your eyes lol they don't stop talking about my eyes which I literally hate my eyes I used to love my eyes cos I'm the only one in my whole family and relatives going back generations has blue eyes not one had my eye colour. Cos I was completely different from my family my eyes made me more different which I enjoyed plus I felt unique cos of my eyes but I get to much attention which I despise so when they go on about my eyes I instantly feel hatred loko. My eyes are green by the way.
Yea it's good you found out right at the beginning instead of him wasting your time and hurting you. I must say I'm very happy that it's not messed with your head and that your not hurt to much over him Your handling it really good. All you can now is put him at the back of your head and keep doing what your doing he's now technically in the past.
Yea he could of mentioned to you about trying different food places that's the whole point of talking together. Sorry I only thought you were from the US cos you said mall i only hear that in the US lol. We do have malls but yet we don't call them malls every place where theres a main shopping centre we have them but each one are called differently like the one nearest to me is called the arcades (not gaming arcades) then the the spindles centre then the main one in Manchester town centre called the arndale centre. They all mostly have food courts but there mainly on the high streets especially in Manchester.
Yea it's good you found out right at the beginning instead of him wasting your time and hurting you. I must say I'm very happy that it's not messed with your head and that your not hurt to much over him Your handling it really good. All you can now is put him at the back of your head and keep doing what your doing he's now technically in the past.
Yea he could of mentioned to you about trying different food places that's the whole point of talking together. Sorry I only thought you were from the US cos you said mall i only hear that in the US lol. We do have malls but yet we don't call them malls every place where theres a main shopping centre we have them but each one are called differently like the one nearest to me is called the arcades (not gaming arcades) then the the spindles centre then the main one in Manchester town centre called the arndale centre. They all mostly have food courts but there mainly on the high streets especially in Manchester.
Yep... I'm trying not get hung up on someone because the last time I hung up on someone, it didn't end very well lol. I don't want anyone to disturb my peace!
Hey I am single by choice too (I think? lol), I decided to jump on the dating app bandwagon because of my friend and because it seems fun and I was bored, so I thought, why the hell not.
Ah yes, the shopping centre. I remember Australians also call it that.
Hey I am single by choice too (I think? lol), I decided to jump on the dating app bandwagon because of my friend and because it seems fun and I was bored, so I thought, why the hell not.
Ah yes, the shopping centre. I remember Australians also call it that.
It didn't end well ohhhh I so want to hear that story lol. I'm purposely avoiding relationships your trying to find someone lol yet I do miss the closeness of being with someone I miss getting to know a girl listening to everything she says enjoy hearing everything she talks about. Well I did sign up to tinder couple of years ago I just wanted to do an experiment lol wanted to see if anyone would swipe right 🤣 don't like to brag but I did really well 😏. I went on a few apps got a shit loads of messages I never replied I even got rude messages cos I didn't reply back lol.
Have you tried dating apps and is there someone else you like or was it just him..
Have you tried dating apps and is there someone else you like or was it just him..
Oh, maybe one day I'll tell you about it, I just don't feel like talking about it now lol. Let's just say that I win a little bit in life compared to him :P and I don't miss out much.
Haha! Same. It was an experiment for me as well and I wanted to see what it's all about. Typically you'll get a lot of matches but most of them are pretty boring. I would say internet guys are a lot more fun to talk to than all these dating app guys, if that makes sense.
I talked to someone from the UK, but I don't live there, so I don't think it's going to work out. Aanddd we don't talk anymore. Hahah.
Haha! Same. It was an experiment for me as well and I wanted to see what it's all about. Typically you'll get a lot of matches but most of them are pretty boring. I would say internet guys are a lot more fun to talk to than all these dating app guys, if that makes sense.
I talked to someone from the UK, but I don't live there, so I don't think it's going to work out. Aanddd we don't talk anymore. Hahah.
Would love to hear it one day. He doesnt deserve someone like you it's his loss.
Yea I got a lot of matches which some were stupid I matched with someone from Scotland that's at the top of the country I'm just milesssss from Scotland good match there ay lol. And your right talking on internet is so much better and fun like you said and it does make sense. The girl I was with for 6 years I met her on xbox we were playing a game and I shot her horse by accident and she messaged calling me so many names her language was disgusting I said to myself the language on her wow shes definitely my type 🤣. And she didn't mention my eyes which was perfect I moved down London to be with her. The first time we met she punched me right in the tit she said that's for Amy I asked wtf is Amy she goes my horse you shot I couldn't stop laughing.
Ahhh so you don't think it would work out cos hes from UK lol did you tell him that or did you or him stop talking.
Sorry I know I ask a lot of questions your actually really fun to talk to and the only fun I get is teasing my stalkers 🤣
Yea I got a lot of matches which some were stupid I matched with someone from Scotland that's at the top of the country I'm just milesssss from Scotland good match there ay lol. And your right talking on internet is so much better and fun like you said and it does make sense. The girl I was with for 6 years I met her on xbox we were playing a game and I shot her horse by accident and she messaged calling me so many names her language was disgusting I said to myself the language on her wow shes definitely my type 🤣. And she didn't mention my eyes which was perfect I moved down London to be with her. The first time we met she punched me right in the tit she said that's for Amy I asked wtf is Amy she goes my horse you shot I couldn't stop laughing.
Ahhh so you don't think it would work out cos hes from UK lol did you tell him that or did you or him stop talking.
Sorry I know I ask a lot of questions your actually really fun to talk to and the only fun I get is teasing my stalkers 🤣
Thank you so much, it's nice to hear that
That's actually a cute story! I met that guy I was talking about (the guy I was hung up on) on an internet chatroom. I wasn't even looking to date someone, I just wanted to troll because I was bored at the time, since it was anonymous lol. And what do you know I ended up dating him, well-going on and off for about 2-3 years, I think?
About the guy from the UK, I don't know, the conversation wasn't really exciting. He kept lovebombing me which I felt like too early for him to do that, and I'm like, "yeah I know im awesome you don't have to keep telling me that every time, let's just talk about something else" :P (only kidding). I didn't tell him that though, of course. I think the last thing we talked about was something about his work, but then he never replied again and the conversation got expired. I don't care about it and just let it be. Lol.
That's actually a cute story! I met that guy I was talking about (the guy I was hung up on) on an internet chatroom. I wasn't even looking to date someone, I just wanted to troll because I was bored at the time, since it was anonymous lol. And what do you know I ended up dating him, well-going on and off for about 2-3 years, I think?
About the guy from the UK, I don't know, the conversation wasn't really exciting. He kept lovebombing me which I felt like too early for him to do that, and I'm like, "yeah I know im awesome you don't have to keep telling me that every time, let's just talk about something else" :P (only kidding). I didn't tell him that though, of course. I think the last thing we talked about was something about his work, but then he never replied again and the conversation got expired. I don't care about it and just let it be. Lol.
It was a cute story but my tit really hurt oh and she
loved reminding me that I was her bitch she loved to keep punching me in my arm I got a nice massive bruise lol. I got a picture well sort of you can at the bottom of the pic she loved to poke the dam bruise bitch lol.
2/3 years that's not bad especially when you win in life better than him wait omg you killed him 🤣
Seriously you aswell I got that all the time too if I decided I try and date someone they always fell in love with me not long after dating without fail every fooking time I always had to stop dating them telling them I'm sorry i cant give you what you want and need i got slapped punched hit with a car but mostly i get hit in the balls it got that much attention i literally had to put a cup on to protect the fragile area everytime I had to tell them 🤣. But regardless how many times I get hit by women I never hit back cos I don't hit women not once in my life have I hit a woman I'll stand there and get hit but I wont hit them back never do and never will.
Aww well fook him lol you cant get all loved up straight away love takes a while for that to happen you get to know the person take interest in there life that you enjoy that's the best part is getting to know somebody then the love part will come naturally which is the greatest feeling. Omg I'm so lonely
loved reminding me that I was her bitch she loved to keep punching me in my arm I got a nice massive bruise lol. I got a picture well sort of you can at the bottom of the pic she loved to poke the dam bruise bitch lol.
2/3 years that's not bad especially when you win in life better than him wait omg you killed him 🤣
Seriously you aswell I got that all the time too if I decided I try and date someone they always fell in love with me not long after dating without fail every fooking time I always had to stop dating them telling them I'm sorry i cant give you what you want and need i got slapped punched hit with a car but mostly i get hit in the balls it got that much attention i literally had to put a cup on to protect the fragile area everytime I had to tell them 🤣. But regardless how many times I get hit by women I never hit back cos I don't hit women not once in my life have I hit a woman I'll stand there and get hit but I wont hit them back never do and never will.
Aww well fook him lol you cant get all loved up straight away love takes a while for that to happen you get to know the person take interest in there life that you enjoy that's the best part is getting to know somebody then the love part will come naturally which is the greatest feeling. Omg I'm so lonely
It was a cute story but my tit really hurt oh and she
loved reminding me that I was her bitch she loved to keep punching me in my arm I got a nice massive bruise lol. I got a picture well sort of you can at the bottom of the pic she loved to poke the dam bruise bitch lol.
2/3 years that's not bad especially when you win in life better than him wait omg you killed him 🤣
Seriously you aswell I got that all the time too if I decided I try and date someone they always fell in love with me not long after dating without fail every fooking time I always had to stop dating them telling them I'm sorry i cant give you what you want and need i got slapped punched hit with a car but mostly i get hit in the balls it got that much attention i literally had to put a cup on to protect the fragile area everytime I had to tell them 🤣. But regardless how many times I get hit by women I never hit back cos I don't hit women not once in my life have I hit a woman I'll stand there and get hit but I wont hit them back never do and never will.
Aww well fook him lol you cant get all loved up straight away love takes a while for that to happen you get to know the person take interest in there life that you enjoy that's the best part is getting to know somebody then the love part will come naturally which is the greatest feeling. Omg I'm so lonely
loved reminding me that I was her bitch she loved to keep punching me in my arm I got a nice massive bruise lol. I got a picture well sort of you can at the bottom of the pic she loved to poke the dam bruise bitch lol.
2/3 years that's not bad especially when you win in life better than him wait omg you killed him 🤣
Seriously you aswell I got that all the time too if I decided I try and date someone they always fell in love with me not long after dating without fail every fooking time I always had to stop dating them telling them I'm sorry i cant give you what you want and need i got slapped punched hit with a car but mostly i get hit in the balls it got that much attention i literally had to put a cup on to protect the fragile area everytime I had to tell them 🤣. But regardless how many times I get hit by women I never hit back cos I don't hit women not once in my life have I hit a woman I'll stand there and get hit but I wont hit them back never do and never will.
Aww well fook him lol you cant get all loved up straight away love takes a while for that to happen you get to know the person take interest in there life that you enjoy that's the best part is getting to know somebody then the love part will come naturally which is the greatest feeling. Omg I'm so lonely
You're right about the love part will come naturally. The best one usually comes when you least expect it.
Not really I cried a lot in the shower crying I'm no ones butch I'm no ones bitch 😄.
Thats true iv only been in love once in my life I don't believe I will find it again iv kinda locked my heart away and I honestly don't think I can unlock it again.
Omg I'm watching YouTube and theres a live black tape project on YouTube that's naught stuff it's not even the watershed time lol.
Thats true iv only been in love once in my life I don't believe I will find it again iv kinda locked my heart away and I honestly don't think I can unlock it again.
Omg I'm watching YouTube and theres a live black tape project on YouTube that's naught stuff it's not even the watershed time lol.
I am doing alright at the moment, am riding on a relief medication brings, having some tea and a ciggie. How was your Sunday? (the whole day I was under impression it was Saturday until somebody in chat mentioned it is actually Sunday )
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