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How to stop wanting to be perfect so much? 😂


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I laugh cause I feel stupid for doing so and see this is my habit. Before school, during school and after school and learning can be tough for me but even during break and I have friends that consoling me sweet things saying like everyone else is saying nice things about my work... And I should be used to criticism by now. But like I feel like I can’t get out of the habit of putting so much pressure on myself to be so perfect cause I want to actually complete a lot of things. And I can proof it, my body is tired but I still want to do it. I want to do more. I’m not good with resting, I feel like I’m so used to it but I don’t like it.

I’m panicking abit, I collected lots of comments about me while I’m doing this from many professional help, lectures and friends.

They say abt my perfectionist attitude though:
  1. Habit of comparing
  2. Paints black and white picture
  3. Like nobodys business
  4. Stressing over wanting to achieve things
  5. All of nothing
  6. Don’t be so hard on yourself
  7. Nothing ever good enough for them
  8. You need to take more time to recover but I denied
I dont know how to get out of this, this is no ones fault, its just me.

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