I have a friend (who is a girl) whom ive been friends with for a few months now. Just last month, we decided to start and see if we were attracted to one another and go dating... but we would just go naturally and let things progress that way. We then became "friends with benefits" (friends but with sex too), which began with her. She isn't the type of person to just sleep with any guy, so (as she even said) I was special to her. I wasnt too comfy with the idea at first, mostly because I had past relationships that started this way and it didnt turn out good in the end. There are definately different feelings with her than with my past girlfriends, but im finding from over the past few days that I don't think we would make good boyfriend/girlfriend material. So, now I want to discontinue developing our relationship and go back to being just regular friends. Problem is... I dont know how to tell her. She's more of a dominating girl, likes things done her way. Ive been her best sexual partner to date, which will make it hard to stop that part of it. I even get the feeling that she wants sex everytime we do something at her house (ie watch a movie, etc.) and she calls me up or complains that we dont spend enough time together to get me to do stuff with her. She was also really sad before all this started because she hadnt been in a relationship in so long. I just have a bad feeling that if I tell her I dont think we'd be good together, to stop having sex and go back to the way things were, she'd get really depressed for a long time and I would ruin her life maybe. I know she has stronger feelings for me since she's been trying to be closer and see me more, but I dont share those feelings. How do I tell her I want to go back to the way things were?