About November I told my mum I was bigender and in late February my dad also knew. My mum believed it to be a hormonal phase I was going through but I insisted it was not. I realise now it was. At the time I had just started university, was homesick, stressed, anxious, depressed, and as a result my hormones were everywhere. I hated being female and wanted to be male, but not all the time. Now I would better describe myself as androgynous with female leanings. I want some advice on how to tell my mum and dad that my male persona is pretty much non-existent now and that now that my hormones have calmed down and the stresses of starting uni are gone I have come to realise that bigender is not who I am - but I don't want it to come across to my parents or friends that I said I was bigender for attention. I honestly felt that way at the time but no longer do.