Ok so people come to our forum, like I once did, not truly knowing what they want, but thinking they want to die. And really what they are wanting is for their pain and suffering to end. And so we offer support. Words of encouragement. Brainstorming ideas on how to maybe help a person out of a predicament. Often times, it helps. But it gets really frustrating when despite your best efforts, someone just won't take the advice or help offered. Because you know, they will finalize their actions. It gets so weary after awhile. But yet...I keep on trying because I know that (in my own selfish way) the more I try and help others, the more I am helping myself in my own situations. cause I don't want to die either. But I do grow tired. So many people have so much potential, yet they think they are in a place they can't get out of. If only they could view it from our perspective. Maybe I should have gone into the funeral business.