first off tell your brother to get a life!!!!! what the hell is the big deal with him anyways? he needs to get use to it, and hell like it and smile while he's liking it!!! if he don't the fact that you don't mind being with women as well as men then that is his problem. HE NEEDS TO GROW UP!!!!!!! I don't care how old he is.
btw i love evanesance too! (your location tells me you like them)