I am scum!

Discussion in 'Rants, Musings and Ideas' started by Jess, Aug 24, 2006.

  1. Jess

    Jess Guest

    I'm a person! I have feelings too! I'm not just some robot that you can push around and treat like gum on the bottom of your shoe! or like it's such a hassle to deal with me. I'm trying okay!?!??

    It's amazing how harsh, how cold, how RUDE people can be. ARGGGHHH. way to make me feel worse then I already do... I'm there serving you! I'm feeling like hell already.. but still make myself come. smile, be happy for you god damn people... and you treat me like dirt.

    THANKS!
     
  2. gentlelady

    gentlelady Staff Alumni

    Jess hun, what is going on? If you need someone to talk to , I am around. I don't think people would intentionally try to hurt you hun. You definitely are not scum or dirt. You are a valuable person. Take care hun. Don't let it get you down. :hug:
     
  3. Wonderstuff

    Wonderstuff Staff Alumni

    ...at work, you mean? :(
    :hug: :hug: :hug:
    Some people are just plain awful, there is nothing anyone can do, I don't think :(
    Just...know that people do know you're not scum, and try to take comfort in that :hug:
    We know you're wonderful :)
     
  4. wienerman

    wienerman Guest

    especially me :hug:
     
  5. Shadowplay

    Shadowplay Staff Alumni

    :hug: you are certinly not scum.
     
  6. Jess

    Jess Guest

    Thanks guys.

    I just had an insanely rough day yesterday. Work with a nice headache. People really are so rude. Ahhg. Well you guys know how I haven't quite been doing too well lately, yes? well I still go to work, trying to keep a smile on to be polite and what not.. and people just walk all over me. The people I work with.. and the customers. I know I'm the youngest there, and the newest.. but does that give them the right to treat me like dirt? Okay, I've heard of the whole initiation things.. but I've been there for almost three weeks.. I do the most work out of any of the reg girls. I'm trying!!!!! :sad: Oh, and I ask for a day off so I can make it to my softball try outs.. and what do I get hit with? a 22 hour weekend. I can't do this...... but I have to.
     
  7. thedeafmusician

    thedeafmusician Staff Alumni

    :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug:
     
  8. Jess

    Jess Guest

    Thanks TDM,

    :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug: back
     
  9. sudut

    sudut Well-Known Member

    Jess,
    do you know what Jesus says about people like you in the sermon on the mountain? you are very blessed. you should be exceedingly happy that people are spitefully using you like this, great is your reward. he also said "no good ever goes unrewarded". Bible also says "Never grow weary in doing good". God sees everything you do, he knows that its in your best interest to want to 'get even'. but he says not to do it anyway (i know it doesn't make any sense).
    will you pass the test?
     
  10. Jess

    Jess Guest

    I don't believe in that stuff.. sorry, but am not into the whole religion thing,
     
  11. Cheesecake

    Cheesecake Well-Known Member

    In the beginning god created the heaven and the earth.

    It kinda went down hill from there.
     
  12. sudut

    sudut Well-Known Member

    thanks for messaging your quick reply Jess. o.k, so you want solutions in the real world then, without the religious stuff... though i don't ever remember mentioning i was religious. when i say Jesus or budha, i am interested in their ways of viewing life, like like socrates and plato had their own ways, these guys are also geniuses in my eyes. anybody who can give me the formula for not worrying in this life is a genius.
    you play Jesse and will i take the role play of the 'crappy customers' that showed you attitude out of nowhere, as if you deserved any of it. its a little tough though, which is why i hate this side of reality. I strive to live in another reality. please Jesse this is a game, i got lots of time on my hands and so don't be angry at me. behind your question lies one of the toughest realities we have to deal with every day, all of us, why, and since we can't figure out the answers, we ask anyways since we think the answers lie somwhere.

    I have personally discovered, a much more simpler alternative from having to wrestle with all that psycological bull above. I just think that everything is a test! i think i must have a higher purpose thats being crafted from all this day to day irritating senseless bullshit we have to go through(like this random people decided to come in your restaurant at the exact day that you were already pissed off, and they specifically pick on that day to irritate you further...). i can't dismiss this shit as coincidence. budha and Jesus sayings make much more sense to me than religion or logic ever would. its like straight answers to an exam without thinking. phrases like "the kingdom of heaven", to me translate to "a state of mind where there is no worry and you". even though it could represent a physical entity.

    after years of not being able to figure out why all this happens, from huge, natioanal divastating events like the september 11th to trivial personal issues like facing dissaproval from a friend. all i could do was hurl insults at God for why he ever made me and what he was thinking in the first place. why me. Why didn't you just make a star instead of me. i know you love me but why did you decide to love me. i wish i didn't exist - period. either here or in the pleasurable heaven, or hell. i wanted nothing to do with all of this cosmic reality called creation (i hope when i die God will understand i was drunk then). . then the answer, summarised in this phrase once dawned on me
    "we only get pissed of at life because we don't know why we are really here. it can't be just for pleasure, otherwise we'd be born in a pleasurable plane".
    its taken me a great journey from hurling straight questions and insults and blasphemies at the author of my life for ever creating me and placing me here (please don't think i'm religious or trying to preach to you, i just feel like writing today and ideas are flowing on my mind, you don't have to read.), to just figure out that i had been selfish. all i wanted was my dreams (self actualization in other words idolatry) and not my purpose (meaning).
    jess i've learned alot from talking to you. bye.
     
  13. Jess

    Jess Guest

    I'm not sure I'm understanding you.. sorry, thanks for trying though..

    This really wasn't a post looking for too many responses. Just venting about things bothering me. Sorry if you took it for something else.. but that's why I put it in the Let It Out section... it's nothing important...

    Well.. I must get going and go to bed so I can get up wayto early for a way to long day of work. Oh yes, and to add to the stress of tomorrow.. I just had a pretty bad fight with my dad. My friends mom went through her stuff and found some.. stuff (I'll leave it at that) and assumed that since we're friends we do this stuff together... and called my dad, WHILE HE WAS AT WORK and told him Im doing all this stuff.. which ISNT TRUE AND SHE HAS NO RIGHT TO GO AND TELL HIM THAT< WHO DOES SHE THINK SHE IS. so he came home today on his lunch break.. we "discussed it" then.. and tonight at fucking 11pm he wants to discuss it again.. I told him I didn't want to talk tonight because I'm tired and stressed already.. but still he wants to talk!!!

    It's all because I can't stare someone in the face when we talk. I'm sorry that I'm shy and I just can't look you in the face.. that's just WHO I AM. I do it with everyone.. it's nothing new.. and if you KNEW ME then you'd KNOW that's how I am....

    God.. am I getting this distant from people? not even my own family knows me?
     
  14. gentlelady

    gentlelady Staff Alumni

    Just want to give you this Jess. :hug: :hug: :rose: :rose: :hug: :hug:
     
  15. rachypooh

    rachypooh Well-Known Member

    I hope work has gotten better for you, I know how tough it can get, but sometimes we just dont have a choice where we work, its a pain really.