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i am sick of getting hurt

Discussion in 'Rants, Musings and Ideas' started by ColdSummer, Feb 24, 2008.

  1. ColdSummer

    ColdSummer Well-Known Member

    Everytime i get close to sumone, I always end up alone. this happens all the time and has throughout my whole life. I feel sick, because it has happened again. I wish I knew why people hated me. People always ask why I dont trust people or dont like to get close to anyone...it's because I am sick of getting hurt everytime!:mad::sad:
  2. Panther

    Panther Well-Known Member

    it might not be that people actually hate you, but if you're insecure and lacking in social skills and don't think you'll get anywhere in friendships and relationships, it's more likely you won't. You've gotta work on your self esteem and confidence in order to trust people and stuff .. I can pretty much tell you that from personal experience. But I agree it's hard to trust people if you're scared of getting hurt. It's not that other people are bad but a lot of people cannot relate to people who find it difficult socially.