not really looking for replies, I just want someone to listen.
I'm 32 years old, and have achieved nothing. I have no work, no boyfriend, no social life. I do NOT suffer from depresion. my life is just going nowhere. people reject me automatically. wether it's job interviews (literally have never passed one in my entire life, ending up working in shit temporary jobs), or romantic partneres, or friends. I wish i knew why, so maybe I can do something. I know I have problems, which may or may even be due to un-diagnosed social problem, like asperger. I almost cannot recognize faces. I'll sit infront of someone for an hour, having a chat, and if they leave the room and return I won't recognize them. I also don't remember names. never know how to participate/contribute to a conversation, so I just sit quietly and listen. when i do say something, I can visibly see the other person's face 'close'. again, i do not know what I'm doing wrong. I was just told that i didn't get that job at the supermarkt job I applied to, and have been working at for 4 days to learn it. they said I was too slow. I wasn't. I have a diploma (not sure if the right word, forgive my english) in programming, in graphical design, and in teaching art to kids. can't even find a temporary job. the colege I went to for programming is supposed to help the 'top of the clas' to find a job, by accepting them to a program which gets you working experience. I wasn't accepted, even though my grades were 95/100, and I was literally the best in class- both students and teachers have said it to me. why wasn't i accepted? they gave this excuse that I don't live in the same city. bullshit. I know for a fact that someone from my town, and people from more remote towns, have been accepted. people are rejected by my behaviour, or the way I speak, idk. the point is, i lost hope of things getting better. I keep trying, but no one is gonna accept me to a job, ever. the longer I go unemployed, the more undesirable i am to employers. the longer i go without getting married, is gonna make men assume something's wrong with me. it isn't getting better. my self esteem keeps dropping. I can't sleep, i barely eat. I'm religious and believe suicide will make me go to hell. yet, here I am considering it seriously. what's the point? I don't benefit anyone by staying alive. watching stupid youTube videos to pass the time. for what?
I'm 32 years old, and have achieved nothing. I have no work, no boyfriend, no social life. I do NOT suffer from depresion. my life is just going nowhere. people reject me automatically. wether it's job interviews (literally have never passed one in my entire life, ending up working in shit temporary jobs), or romantic partneres, or friends. I wish i knew why, so maybe I can do something. I know I have problems, which may or may even be due to un-diagnosed social problem, like asperger. I almost cannot recognize faces. I'll sit infront of someone for an hour, having a chat, and if they leave the room and return I won't recognize them. I also don't remember names. never know how to participate/contribute to a conversation, so I just sit quietly and listen. when i do say something, I can visibly see the other person's face 'close'. again, i do not know what I'm doing wrong. I was just told that i didn't get that job at the supermarkt job I applied to, and have been working at for 4 days to learn it. they said I was too slow. I wasn't. I have a diploma (not sure if the right word, forgive my english) in programming, in graphical design, and in teaching art to kids. can't even find a temporary job. the colege I went to for programming is supposed to help the 'top of the clas' to find a job, by accepting them to a program which gets you working experience. I wasn't accepted, even though my grades were 95/100, and I was literally the best in class- both students and teachers have said it to me. why wasn't i accepted? they gave this excuse that I don't live in the same city. bullshit. I know for a fact that someone from my town, and people from more remote towns, have been accepted. people are rejected by my behaviour, or the way I speak, idk. the point is, i lost hope of things getting better. I keep trying, but no one is gonna accept me to a job, ever. the longer I go unemployed, the more undesirable i am to employers. the longer i go without getting married, is gonna make men assume something's wrong with me. it isn't getting better. my self esteem keeps dropping. I can't sleep, i barely eat. I'm religious and believe suicide will make me go to hell. yet, here I am considering it seriously. what's the point? I don't benefit anyone by staying alive. watching stupid youTube videos to pass the time. for what?