I am...

Discussion in 'Family, Friends and Relationships' started by jay89, May 6, 2011.

  1. jay89

    jay89 Member


    I think...

    I dunno...

    I seem to sway more to other guys..

    urghh its hard though because I dont like guys that are really camp.. but.. if I do see a guy I like, its hard to tell if hes gay/bi aswell... so nothing ever comes of it.

    Im more on this forum to help people, because Ive been through alot of shit myself with depression and relation ships ect.. and beat it, but the odd cry for help cant hurt can it? :D

    So yeah.. any gay/bi guys feel the same?

    (especially from England.. that are cute.. and wear skinny jeans ;) )

    I kid I kid :D xxxxxxxxxx
  2. tweetypie

    tweetypie Antiquities Friend

    im not a guy or bi (sorry) but i thought ur post was really good :D
  3. Mr. E

    Mr. E Well-Known Member

    I'm not in the UK, but I remember being at this phase. I was swayed all the way to guys eventually. Sexuality is a process of discovery, give it time and it will become clearer
  4. nolonger

    nolonger Well-Known Member

    fucked if I know there's even a way to tell if someones gay/bi if they don't show any kind of 'stereotypical' actions.

    if i like a guy, i dont bother telling him. because(for me atleast) it'll just make things worse. and most of the time, i don't even have any social interaction with him anyway.

    just because you don't like camp guys, doesn't mean you aren't gay lol :p. i wouldnt say i like 'camp' guys, but that'd be because it would be more of a personality clash then a general attractiveness.
  5. 1izombie

    1izombie Well-Known Member

    By "camp" i guess you mean stereotypical acting gay guy? To quote Homer J. Simpson, "I like my beer cold my TV loud and my homosexuals flaming" but really I don't have a type of guy I like, I'd just be happy with anyone who would be interested in me (camp or otherwise)....anyways I'm not from England , I'm not cute and I couldn't wear skinny jeans even if i wanted to, but I know the frustration of not knowing if a guy is gay/bi ...I even once got the nerve up to ask a guy out without knowing if he was gay...that didnt work out so well...don't think I'll do that again. Being gay or bi has its disadvantages, but idk I kinda like being gay...
  6. jay89

    jay89 Member

    Thanks for the replies guys :D

    I didnt mean to sound rude about 'camp' guys.. its just I live in Blackpool, and it seems that if youre gay, then you have to act like a woman.. and Im really not attracted to that, not that I have any problem with people that are like that.

    I think for me, because I dont act/look gay, people wouldnt recognise me as being gay, therefore it makes it hard to meet people that are like me..

    If you get where Im coming from..

    I.E. I like watching football, drinking, boxing, skydiving, cars.. so most people with the same interests are straight, or they might be gay but I cant tell.. which is my problem!

    ahhh maybe I should wear a dress for a bit, then Id find out whos gay ;)
  7. jay89

    jay89 Member

    I meant a cute personality/sence of humour.. I really dont care about looks! And Im sure I could live without skinny jeans :D

  8. 1izombie

    1izombie Well-Known Member

    I didn't take offence, just so you know, it's and language thing...although we both speak english I here stuff like camp and get confused as camp has a different usage/meaning here...

    Skinny jeans are smexy but I couldn't pull them off, style wise, but i wouldn't kick anyone out of bed for wearing a pair.... ;)
  9. jay89

    jay89 Member


    ahhh loooookkk a duck :) :duck: