I can't do this. I'm so boring!

Discussion in 'Rants, Musings and Ideas' started by twilight, Apr 13, 2007.

  1. twilight

    twilight Well-Known Member

    I can't make friends with people. I am the most boring, stupid person in the world. No wonder when someone came to my dorm room, they left after less than five minutes. I suck at making friends with people and what's the point of life if you can't make friends. I hate myself for not being more outgoing and interesting.
     
  2. Smythe

    Smythe Well-Known Member

    I feel that way most of the time as well.
    It's come to the point where, if I must be in a group setting, I feel I need
    to get drunk to loosen up, and open up a bit. This, obviously is a bad solution.
    I wish I had more meaningful help to offer, other than empathy/sympathy.
    If I find any secrets to being charming and witty, I'll be sure to share them :wink:
     
  3. twilight

    twilight Well-Known Member

    I can relate to the need to use alcohol. That's what I have done in the past to loosen up and it does help. I didn't mention something I did that was really stupid to make someone not like me. He said I ratted him out which I is true. I shouldn't have though. I am such a bad friend that its only time before I do something else stupid to make people not like me because obviously I don't know what I'm doing when it comes to people. I must be a horrible person! :( Pretty soon no one will like me.
     
  4. Blackness

    Blackness Guest

    I'm the same. I want friends but don't really want or know how to. It's as if I'm different to all the other people at uni. I don't want to change, if they want to be my friend they can accept me as I am.
    There's no way to make yourself "more interesting" maybe try and talk more to them...if you can.
     
  5. Nosmanic

    Nosmanic Active Member

    I am the same way. I don't get some and society I feel like I'm on a different plane of existence. I not making sense but I get it.:smile:
     
  6. patricia07

    patricia07 New Member

    You're not alone but sometimes we need to get out of our shelves and socialize. We're all on the same planet, after all.

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  7. Greenforest

    Greenforest Well-Known Member

    Everyone always say how easy it is to go to talk to new people. Like it was that easy to just start a discussion. And maybe it is for those who are outgoing, but I think there would be only embarrassing silence if I got to someone total stranger and said something.

    I feel I have too different interests. All the other youngs are normal, they have their normal hobbies and do their normal things. I'm silent, peace-loving and love the nature. There are not even any "hippie" persons who I could share my views. I have few good friends though, but they are from the childhood when it was easier to make friends.

    I feel pitiful when I see nerdy boys hanging with girls, mixed friend groups of boys and girls, when I myself have never even talked to a girl.
     
  8. twilight

    twilight Well-Known Member

    I don't think anyone really knows how hard it is for me and I guess that's a good thing because they shouldn't have to.