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I can't find any Suicide Chat rooms.

Discussion in 'I Have a Question...' started by BioHomocide, Sep 13, 2010.

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  1. BioHomocide

    BioHomocide Well-Known Member

    Well duh I know of the one here but I am talking about more casual ones that are not so heavily moderated.

    It's like talking about suicide is so dangerous or something that you can't be who you are because of rules. Did that make any sense? I dunno....I'm thinking of retyping it. :laugh:

    But hm there are a lot more dangerous things out there on the internet and I feel like the internet has become such a strange place where suicide is swept under the rug (not counting the anti suicide sentiment) while other stuff like porn is rampant. Hell I can go into most chat rooms and be accosted for sex and naked pictures of myself....or cam. But eh when I get all emotional people just brush me aside and if I say anything about suicide they tell me about God will hate me if I do it, how much Jesus loves me and how hot hell is this time of the year. It's funny getting the Suicide is Wrong speech from someone who just asked me to send them pictures of my junk.

    Anyways......I just need people to talk to that are not prudes while not being too deviant. It's hard to find the right balance nowadays.

    Can anyone point me in the right direction? I need to talk about Suicide.
  2. Landlocked blues

    Landlocked blues Well-Known Member

    I kind of get what you mean. I think! Are you wanting to talk about methods? I dont think there are many chat rooms which will allow that to be honest. Maybe you could find one person to chat to that feels the same as you?
  3. BioHomocide

    BioHomocide Well-Known Member

    Well I want to talk about all aspects of suicide and even if people hate it methods are an aspect of suicide..... But that's not what I want to talk about exactly. I have spent a few hours in the chat and am still in it currently but hm maybe I'm just not finding anyone who shares the same opinions of suicide or the same reasons for being suicidal.

    Maybe I'm just being too picky. :laugh:

    But yeah fawkes you're right! The chat hasn't been as iron fisted as it used to be. Perhaps it just has to do with who is moderating it at any given time.
  4. KittyGirl

    KittyGirl Well-Known Member

    I always assumed that any 'suicide chatroom' wouldn't exist because all of the people who would be going into said chatroom would kinda... already be... :nite: if ya know what I mean.

    If they were still posting, they must be :zombie:

    Although that was what I was looking for when I first came here. I will admit. -__-
  5. WildCherry

    WildCherry Staff Member ADMIN

    It's like talking about suicide is so dangerous or something that you can't be who you are because of rules.

    When those rules exist, there's a good reason for them. Talking about suicide can be dangerous, considering people's lives are at stake. That's why the rules are in place, not just here but on many other depression or suicide sites.
  6. boo

    boo Well-Known Member

    You will be hard pressed to find chat rooms that allow talks of suicide methods. Even pro suicide forums don't allow such thing.
  7. flyingdutchmen

    flyingdutchmen Well-Known Member

    I've seen otherwhise, not that i aprove though. Most of them unmoderated and full of trolling
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  8. Viro

    Viro Well-Known Member

    I'm very much of a deviant. If you find a chatroom you think I'd like, send me a PM.

  9. Kaos General

    Kaos General Well-Known Member

    People can talk about suicide all they want on here. Id like to know why on earth you would want to talk about methods for? How on earth would that be of benefit to anyone? This is a pro life forum not a pro suicide forum. I get where your coming from i just dont agree with it.

    Can you imagine what would happen if we was allowed to discuss methods on here?

    You have hit the nail on the head right their it is extremely hard to find the right balance but to be fair i think its fairly well balanced on here. If you try any other support forums then there are many many more rules than there are on here.

    Im sorry but porn and sex is nowhere near as bad as talking about suicide methods. I do agree with you that there are too many people on here saying god loves you and jesus loves you and im tired of hearing about that, but thats my personal views and i respect people who find solace in faith, its just not for me.

    Thing is if people dont want to talk about certain aspects of suicide then surely you can understand why? If not then i guess your never going to find what your looking for.
  10. Axiom

    Axiom Account Closed

    I think the OP means, just being able to have the freedom to talk about suicide in every regard, even when it branches into methods.

    I understand that, i also understand why restrictions are there. But restrictions stop a flow which can allow people to reach certain feelings and understandings.
  11. Kaos General

    Kaos General Well-Known Member

    I understand but not one of us is a trained psychiatrist. If you really want to talk about methods then at least do it with someone who is trained to deal with it. Talking to people who are on the edge about things such as methods could send them over the edge which is why i believe the rules about discussing methods are in place for very good reasons
  12. Axiom

    Axiom Account Closed

    I wasnt saying do it, I was explaining my interpretation of his point of view :) It's too risky being that open here considering the states people are in just to come here unfortunatly.
  13. BioHomocide

    BioHomocide Well-Known Member

    I think you can talk about suicide in all aspects of it and be neutral about it.

    You don't have to be pro or anti. You just have to be open to sharing how you truly feel and being tolerant of hearing how others feel about it.

    I'm not looking for a pro suicide chat and yet I'm not looking for one that is anti either. I just want a chat room where people can just support each other without feeling they have to dumb their views down to follow rules.

    And I understand that no one is perfect and some people are a little more sensitive than others but does that really mean that just because some people are more sensitive than others that rules should be made to protect those more sensitive people that inhibits the speech of the others?
  14. BioHomocide

    BioHomocide Well-Known Member

    It's nice to know someone understands me. ^^ Made me smile.
  15. c0nfused

    c0nfused New Member

    I want to find these chat rooms too.
  16. hardlife

    hardlife Well-Known Member

    I can really relate to this. Being forced to suppress the worst feelings could make things even more harder.
  17. ExtraSoap

    ExtraSoap Well-Known Member

    i kinda agree with angerfist on this one, but I definitely see your point. I personally think that things like this can never be perfectly balanced, but we just have to try anyway.
  18. Random

    Random Well-Known Member

    You won't find what you're looking for. There are places where methods are occasionally discussed but they're practically worthless because of all the shitheads who think everyone should have to live because they want to. Do not look for it. It's a waste of time and it won't help you no matter what you're looking for. And I don't say that because I'm pro life. There is just nothing there that's worth putting yourself through the nonsense.

    Methods are not rocket science anyway.
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