Right heres my situation I went on holiday with someone and had a great time, i came back got horribly depressed and stupidly thought a good way to pull myself out of it would be to go and meet them again as they were there for a month. So i go back a week later and she barely talked to me i explain that im not eating/sleeping and that im NOT in love with her i just really enjoy her company, then when i get home again i email her and no reply so i totally freak out and have to go to the doctor whos put me on sleeping and anti depressant meds. I emailed her again explaining that im getting help to simply get the reply 'I dont give a fuck' i dont really want to throw a 8 year friendship away and it wasnt the me shes known for 8 years that went over the second time i was sleep deprived and my head was confused so ive no idea what i did to piss her off, shes not accepting a general apology. Its hard to work problems out with someone whos not talking. I guess im just wondering how long to leave it before i should email/call her im thinking to just leave it the full month until shes back home but we dont live locally so i cant really go around and talk to her in person.