I dont like being around her anymore, she is just so self centered and has some serious anger and mood swing issues i dont know wat it is but lately she has been a real rude. She will be fine one minute and the next she starts slamming things and being mean. For example just about a week ago she was mad ALL DAY slamming doors and anything she touches, it turns out she thought my dad was cheating OUT OF NO WHERE! And i could hear her screaming at my dad and saying she is treated like dirt (yeah right) we wash the dishes, clothes, throw out the trash, etc she might do it ONE TIME then all hell breaks lose, the other day i woke up and she told me "are you going to your aunt's birthday?" i said no and she gave a sarcastic "you have anything better to do?" and i just walked away, then she came into the kitchen and said "wash your dishes" rudely and i knew she was in one of her mood swings so i walked away with out saying a word cause she would find any way to twist it and make me look like the bad boy. I went into my room and she followed and said "fine im sorry you dont have to listen to anything i tell you to do" very rudely and now im the bad boy and she is waiting for me to say sorry? Seriously? I love her but i cant stand being around her anymore she plays victim too much and argues. Our house revolves around her if she is mad or sad we all feel it and i cant talk to my dad he lost his man hood in her purse somewhere (its pathetic how weak he is) it wasnt always like this but i dont want my relationship with my mom to be tarnished what should i do?