i havent cut in ages but ive been lucky because quite a few of the cuts didnt scar much though i do have some really obvious one. my dad mentioned the scars on my arms at dinner (they dont know ive had this problem) my mum turned round laughing her head off and goes "her lifes been sooo bad shes self harming". i tried to laugh but now i dont think i could ever tell her, or at least she wouldnt believe me. has anyone been in a similar situation? how did you deal with it?