I love helping people and making them feel better about their problems but recently I've become so overwhelmed with feelings of failure, hopelessness and the necessity to just remove myself from the situation. The two friends I told have just said to focus on me and to stop trying to help everyone else but I can't do that because it's selfish and I'm not worth it. What should I do? I just want to stop feeling crazy and like the only person who can't handle life like everyone else. Should I just do it? It seems rational.