i dont know how to handle it

Discussion in 'Grief and Bereavement' started by becki, Mar 9, 2010.

  1. becki

    becki Active Member

    a friend 2 months saturday just gone took her precious life.....i can handle it but i feel like erm i cant explain how can her mom handle it...i feel responsbile..her name was jade she was 19 yrs old i want to celebrate her life she was amazing!i love to jade
    sorry for the post
  2. total eclipse

    total eclipse SF Friend Staff Alumni

    Oh now not another young one god why I hope her mother has support lots of it and i am so sorry for your pain as well.
  3. Young suicider

    Young suicider Well-Known Member

    Don't be sorry for the post because you need to know it's not your fault.Some people can't take it and don't want help(me) and just have to end it.
  4. becki

    becki Active Member

    i went to her funeral and her whole family was there,everyday i picture her in her last moments it kills me everytime,i know there was nothing i could do because we didnt know how she felt.but if i did maybe she would be here,i just dont know how you deal with it,we had a counsellor he said in time you will stop asking 'why' but i can't.x