In the summer, I met and fell madly in love with a guy who I thought was the embodiment of everything I wanted in a guy, with a few extra endearing flaws and qualities I thought I’d hate but loved in him. He made it seem as though he was into me, even though he had a girlfriend – he even said “If I were single, I would date you”. He lives abroad and I went to visit him and at some point randomly during a conversation, he said “I don’t fancy you” and it killed me. Furthermore, as I’m bisexual, he has tried to set me up with a female friend of his. I realised the other day that I am still in love with him. I want closure and I want to know what made him lead me on, what he was thinking, if he ever liked me at all. I have been left feeling unattractive, especially as no-one ever seems to show any interest in me. I am angry at him, but more so I am angry at myself. Recently he has stopped talking to me, and my immediate thoughts are that he despised me and is therefore blanking me. Any thoughts on whether I should stay friends with him, tell him I love him, or just move on – if the latter, HOW?