I'm a 57 year old male. Been married to the same woman for over 30 years. I believe she's trying to run me off. I think she thinks that if she runs me off then she can divorce me without looking like the bad guy. I just don't know how to cope. I'm just shaking. Can't eat, sleep, work. Not that I'm a bum. I've had the same job for 25 years and I work 63 hours a week. That keeps us in the center of the middle income bracket. I don't drink or chase other women and go to church regularly. I don't know what I hope to find here. I just want the pain to end. We've had our ups & downs but this is the worst it's ever been. The only friends I have are members of our church and I can't talk to them. If I did and she found out she'd never go back to church and I see that as the best chance we have for mending this. Are there any people here my age, married that long that are having difficulties? I just don't know what to do. What to think. I'm just ignoring it pretending everything is ok because she'll blow up again if I try to talk to her about it. Hoping it will blow over. Considering seeing a doctor to see if he can give me some meds to help me cope. I'm afraid to have a history of psychiatric problems on my record. May make it harder to get a job or credit if they think I'm crazy. I need to stop the shaking though. Any ideas?