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I don't know...

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...How much longer I'll be able to take this.

I post this anonymously, because I don't want a certain member here to know that I'm feeling like this.

Thing is, I care about someone a hell of a lot. But they're no good for me. They're feeling down a lot lately and I'm the only one who can comfort them. And I love them so much, I try to be there for them as much as possible and try to help them as much as possible. I want them to be happy, because that makes me happy. But it's taking me down. Everytime it's leaving me drained and shattered and down myself. I seriously don't know how much longer I'll be able to deal with this. I'm going under. But I have to keep doing this. I love them too much to stop being there for them.

I don't know what to do anymore. I'm just ... I'm heading to the verge...


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you cant be there for others 100% of the time hun, it sounds like you both need some support right now, im here if you need someone to talk to

maybe they need to find others that can support them, either here or from the pros? maybe you could go with them the first few times so they get used to it?
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