I'm not sure how long i've been sitting here for, but i just had thoughts run through my head and i'm not sure if they are actual memories or not...from these thoughts, it was dry humping, but i think it happened alot, like, we made a game of it. i don't know if i should ask him about this or not. it happened a lot time ago, but i started having dreams when i was 14/15 that were disturbing. they stoped for a while, but started up again last year...this is the third time these thoughts have been this intense in 1 year. i think more happened...i just want these dreams and thoughts to stop, regardless if it happened or not. i think if i asked him, he would tell me the truth, but i know he was abused. i don't know if asking him will bring up stuff for him...i don't know what to do.