I don't like it when...

Discussion in 'Rants, Musings and Ideas' started by Scum, Mar 25, 2010.

  1. Scum

    Scum Well-Known Member

    ~People screw me over and still expect me to be there for them.

    ~People 'refer' me to people or people to me so I can support them.

    ~People ask more of me than I can give.

    ~People use me.

    ~People take me on as a 'project' to try and save me.

    ~People get involved in something that is nothing to do with them.

    ~People forget I am a person with my own nightmare.
  2. Wastingecho

    Wastingecho Well-Known Member

    • people treat me like an object instead of human being
    • people tell me not to take it personally, it's just business
    • people think the answer to all my problems is simple
  3. total eclipse

    total eclipse SF Friend Staff Alumni

    you both need to listen to each others pain please respect each other pain and know that both of you are caring people so please please listen to each others words
  4. Scum

    Scum Well-Known Member

    hmm, not sure about wastingecho and what he thinks of me, but I don't have a problem with him. I don't know him really and the interactions we have had, certainly haven't had anything to do with my dislikes, can't answer about his, but from my side there is no issue. Wastingecho, if I have done something that has offended you please PM me so we can sort it out :)

    I'm hoping he was just adding his own because we all have things we don't like.
  5. Wastingecho

    Wastingecho Well-Known Member

    i was just adding my things to the list

    i never intended to make you think i had issues with anything you said

    dammit i can't seem to say anything right anymore
  6. Scum

    Scum Well-Known Member

    Its all good :) Miscommunications happen, no biggie at all. I didn't think it was about me, just didn't want to presume, so its all fine :) Promise.
  7. Things

    Things Well-Known Member

    "~People 'refer' me to people or people to me so I can support them."

    *cringe* oh, I'm sorry...I think I did that once, not sure if I did that anymore times. Sorry.

    Do you have any good RL friends?


    Wastingoecho: I'm not even sure if Violet's talking about you two, I thought she was talking about people Scum knew in real life. Then again, maybe I'm the one who's got it confused. XD
  8. NotMyNormalSN

    NotMyNormalSN Active Member

    I hate it when my "friends" say the love and care for me but cannot take the moment it takes to pay attention to my mood or spare a thought for me.

    I hate that all of them ask me for favors all the time but never take the moment to offer any to me.

    I hate that they all expect me to be the bigger man all the time and get pissed when I take a turn to be petty

    I hate that I am always the one giving
  9. Wastingecho

    Wastingecho Well-Known Member

    i don't like it when people tell me i'm not really feeling what i'm feeling
  10. flyingdutchmen

    flyingdutchmen Well-Known Member

    i guess that post is ment for me which i understand and apologize for. im realy sorry for that post post Echo and hope you will forgive me for that sooner or later. my heart goes out for you. it will not happen again
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  11. total eclipse

    total eclipse SF Friend Staff Alumni

    people leave just leave without warning i understand why it happens but it hurts.
  12. Things

    Things Well-Known Member

    *I hate it when people tell me what my beliefs are ("All atheists secretly believe in god, they're just afraid!").

    *I hate bull-headed arrogance, which fits with the above.

    *I hate bigotry.

    *I hate many of my old ways, and some of my new ones.
  13. Stormhand

    Stormhand Well-Known Member

    My friends act too childish to try to solve something by talking, so instead they just laugh.

    When those I trust most just use me and look the other way.

    When I feel guilty the next morning and days after for a comment I made.

    Being too scared to speak up to solve something.

    my mom thinks me as this mean ass monster.

    most ppl around where I live are too hypocritical to help a guy out.

    When I get dumped and analyze myself to see what I did wrong, or whats so wrong with me.
  14. Sapphire

    Sapphire Well-Known Member

    I don't like it when people say they're unhappy and constantly 'complain' about it, yet don't have the willingness to put any effort into doing something about it.
  15. itmahanh

    itmahanh Senior Member & Antiquities Friend

    People are human. So anything wrong they do to someone else can always be justified in their own eyes. As long as they have a good excuse anything is possible. I do believe that the human speicies is the only one that uses emotions as a way to control another.

    ~People who hurt others deeply and know they are doing it~
    ~People who decieve for their own purposes~
    ~People capable of creating turmoil and simply walk away when it suits them~
    ~People like me who are too stupid to accept what their own eyes and heart see~ ~People suck!!!!!!!!~
    ~Life sucks!!!!!!!!!!~
  16. lightbeam

    lightbeam Antiquities Friend

    I don't like it when people don't really listen (in regards to anything).
    I don't like it when the same people trivialize what I am going through.