I don't want to live anymore....

Discussion in 'Suicidal Thoughts and Feelings' started by depressedGirl, Jun 5, 2009.

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  1. depressedGirl

    depressedGirl Well-Known Member

    First of all I am supposed to go and see the psychiatrist but I go to the wrong place.
    Then the counsellor annoys me because she thinks I want to be depressed. I am giving up on her. She's only saying that because she knows she can't help me. I am always going to be depressed. I hate life and she knows it. Suicide is the only way out...

    The other main thing that upsets me more then anything is the fact is I have black hair and I don't want it black anymore. I want it a dark blood red. But NO!!! Life sucks again.
    I ask the hair dressers but all they say is that my hair is too dark.

    Everything is going wrong and I don't want to live anymore. I am considering ending everything because I cannot take anymore. There is no hope anymore.
     
  2. Petal

    Petal SF dreamer Staff Alumni SF Supporter

    Hi Della :hug:

    Perhaps its time to change your counsellor? Don't give up on counselling completely hun because it can help you a great deal when you find the right one for you..

    As for your hair, you don't need to get a hairdresser to do it. You can use those extreme colour dyes, they should do the job :dunno:

    Don't give up hun, you'd be missed way too much :arms:
     
  3. orangejulius

    orangejulius Well-Known Member

    Don't change your hair color... I've always considered black hair to be the most attractive hair color on a women. It's exotic and can be a beautiful contrast to your skin. An example is Karen O of the Yeah Yeah Yeahs... So amazing.

    As for your counselor, dump her and get another. If she isn't willing to help, then she is worthless to you.
     
  4. triggs

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    hey hun, i'm sorry things aren't working out. you should change your counsellor if she's not helping you. don't lose faith in therapy though, it can help a lot. :hug:
    and if you get different opinions from different hairdressers then you should get what you want. i dyed my hair black and i didn't want it anymore so my hairdresser stripped it, using a chemical thing and then dyed it afterwards. it does damage your hair though so you have to be really sure about it. i know if i had the choice to go back i wouldn't dye my hair at all, i'd keep it natural.
    anyway hun, just keep safe and stay strong. we're thinking of you :smile:
    laura xx
     
  5. justafool

    justafool Well-Known Member

    It might really help if you did change your looks to something that is more pleasing to you (I say this even though I really, really like black hair). It seems like you give up a little too easily on things (so do I, sometimes). Just don't back down on stuff that is important to you.
     
  6. mdmefontaine

    mdmefontaine Antiquities Friend

    della hun. . . i've been thinking about you.

    don't give up sweetie. you are too dear . . .

    i am sure you are beautiful with any color of hair. but try to find what pleases you.

    definitely find a new counselor.
    no matter what, you are worth it. you deserve to be happy, and we all care about you love
    xx
     
  7. depressedGirl

    depressedGirl Well-Known Member

    I know I should find a new counsellor but that's the only one there I think. I will ask. Thanks for your help. I did try suicide and failed AGAIN!!! grr
     
  8. Neal Perry

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    I have had 8 counselors in the last 12 years. Not one of them has ever done me a damn bit of good. I had a counselor tell me he wouldn't treat me if I kept cutting myself....so I stopped seeing him. What a brilliant stratagy he had.

    I will say that most of the time counseling has not worked for me is because I am not open enough. I refuse to discuss the real root of my problems.

    My last counselor convinced me that no one had the right to treat me badly, and that I should stand up for myself. I had a good job the last 10 years the only problem was most of the staff didn't like me. I did a dumb thing and called them out on it....I lost my job.

    I haven't given up on counseling. In my heart I know there is someone out there who can help me. The question is will I meet them before I complete suicide.

    Dying your hair isn't permanent so I say go for it. It may help and if it doesn't no real harm done.

    I can tell you the only thing that keeps me from actually killing myself is that I don't want to abandon my cat. Find one thing you want to live for or one thing that can't live without you and hang on to it.
     
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