I moved across the country, leaving a good job with a promotion, to be with my partner. I went back to school, as well (but am in the middle of ... not wanting to do this program anymore). Well, two and a half years later, I am dumped. I was just getting over a very tough first semester, feeling ready to reconnect and rededicate myself to my partner, when he drops this bombshell on me that he hasn't felt excited in a while to be my partner. He just got his dream job (teaching adult education), moved into a living situation (loft) without a lot of privacy (and 7 roommates), and won't try to work anything out together. We had never had a serious fight before, and thus have never tried to repair anything. I just wish we could have another chance to try and work things out. I feel horribly abandoned, like he left just when it was most convenient to him. It's just so difficult for me to see living without him. He meant hope to me, and now it's gone.