i feel selfish bothering the one person i feel comfortable talking to about my problems because i'm sure he has better things to do. i wish he'd throw those things aside and make me his priority, but that's so selfish. the way i was raised has caused me to be spoiled and selfish and i hate it! but i have no clue how to fix it... can i even fix it? or i am just stuck being old spoiled, selfish me?