I had a date!

Discussion in 'Positive Feelings and Motivational Messages' started by aoeu, Jun 11, 2009.

  1. aoeu

    aoeu Well-Known Member

    Okay, so, my depression led to romantic desperation so I posted an ad on craigslist. I got a response I totally loved. We got to talking, and today we had a date together. It was fun and I feel good now. :)

    Edit: I took an Ativan tablet about an hour before we met up, that was the best idea EVER.
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  2. reefer madness

    reefer madness Account Closed

    That's awesome!
  3. Bambi

    Bambi Well-Known Member

    wow that is awesome... the date and the lift in the depression! Are you meeting again?
    What did you say in your ad?

  4. aoeu

    aoeu Well-Known Member

    I started with an alliteration: Strange Sir Seeks Strange Someone
    This turned off people not interested in nerdy guys and turned on people who are interested. :)

    Then I talked a bit about me, fairly vaguely (but accurately) and tried to make it leave the reader wanting more info, and said what I was looking for... I said I wanted an intellectual challenge, not a woman with big tits.

    And then I did NOT include a picture of my penis!

    So, very un-craigslisty. :p And it worked!
  5. Bambi

    Bambi Well-Known Member

    well I got big tits so I'd prolly strike out...but glad you did well. I doubt I could make it through a date but have heard good things about the craigslist so maybe when I am ready.

    Again great for you to get out there and doin it!!

  6. Right U R Ken

    Right U R Ken Well-Known Member

    Not with me you wouldn't!!! Oh baby!!! lol
  7. aoeu

    aoeu Well-Known Member

    Oh, I didn't say, "I'm not looking for big tits" (I'll take 'em), I just neglected to say anything about a desired body type, asking instead for an intellectual challenge. Most craigslist ads focus on their body and the body they want, which is... creepy? Shallow, I guess. I aimed to make it not shallow and I got non-shallow responses as a result!
  8. Bambi

    Bambi Well-Known Member

    well damn I strike out on both counts im shallow and got big tits (VISA made) but i got brains so there is hope! hehe
  9. BriGuy

    BriGuy Antiquities Friend

    And sorry... to try to be funny... and a little crude.. lol... why NOT include a picture of your penis? I love getting pictures of penises!! :tongue:

    Sorry... couldn't resist! :laugh:
  10. aoeu

    aoeu Well-Known Member

    You're a gay guy (...right? That was my understanding.), you have different goals than straight girls (AKA my target.)

    And InNeedOf, big tits are NOT a problem! But that wasn't the focus of my ad!

    ...and for the record, despite it not mattering "big picture", her butt is friggin' fantastic.
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  11. Bambi

    Bambi Well-Known Member

    didn't mean to offend really...just feeling lighthearted tonight and I guess poking fun as it is hard for me to find smart guys and guys to take me seriously-and woman for that matter too-because of my body. Seriously I was happy you shared with us!
    do you have a second date?
  12. BriGuy

    BriGuy Antiquities Friend

    Yeah I am gay.... and I wasn't asking you to send me YOUR photo! Just saying I enjoy receiving them... and so do many straight women! :tongue: Wasn't meant to offend in any way... was just playing! :biggrin:
  13. Bambi

    Bambi Well-Known Member

    alright boyz don't make me whip them out! cuz I will.
  14. aoeu

    aoeu Well-Known Member

    No, not offended. I'm saying I welcome your large breasts with open palms, you're not striking out! Two of my close friends on an intellectual capacity are DD busts... I take women of all rack sizes seriously.

    And don't be so sure of that, BriGuy. Many Women for Men ads specifically request to not be sent penis pics. Indeed, one of the (positive) responses to my ad commented that my ad was unusual because most guys on craigslist just put up a picture of their penis and say, "hey baby, what do you think wanna try it out some time?"

    And yes, I do believe I have at least a second date coming, and I suspect it'll be a few more than that :)
  15. BriGuy

    BriGuy Antiquities Friend

    Well congrats on your date!!

    In my personal experience, many women don't want them upfront like that, you're correct... but at some point, they like to see them... to exchange them! :tongue:

    And of course, personally, even if I am not looking to date the guy, I just like looking! :unsure:

    But congrats! I hope it continues to go great!
  16. aoeu

    aoeu Well-Known Member

    Don't worry, I do have penis pictures in reserve ;)
  17. Bambi

    Bambi Well-Known Member

    can i see?
  18. BriGuy

    BriGuy Antiquities Friend

    Jealous!! :laugh:
  19. aoeu

    aoeu Well-Known Member

    Hmmmm, maybe.
  20. Bambi

    Bambi Well-Known Member

    are you shy?...hehehe

    hey am i get get kicked off SF for saying this stuff...I mean I am just having fun and don't me to cause trouble....I am playful is all and hell sometimes ya gotta be goofy.