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I hate my dad.

Discussion in 'Rants, Musings and Ideas' started by aki, Dec 21, 2008.

  1. aki

    aki Well-Known Member

    I hate my dad so much I think I may kill him.

    :wallbash: fuck fuck fuck you.

    ps. please don't report me to the police for this.
  2. Petal

    Petal SF dreamer Staff Member Safety & Support SF Supporter

    :hug: elizabeth,here if you need to talk x
  3. Dave_N

    Dave_N Guest

    What has your dad done that has made you want to kill him? :unsure:
  4. can i make a suggestion?
    write a letter to him, get every bad feeling down and on paper, then tear it up and burn the pieces. if you want to talk, I have a bit of knowledge in the area of not liking birth fathers. Please Pm me if you ever feel this bad again.
  5. snowraven

    snowraven Well-Known Member

    Want to swap. My dads an a******e but I wouldn't want to kill him.:wink:
  6. fromthatshow

    fromthatshow Staff Alumni SF Supporter

    I want to kill my Dad too. This is what came out in therapy before I ended up going to the hospital. Saying it is one thing, then the feeling starts to come on. The feeling of actually wanting to kill someone. It's intense, and I think I have not let go of it yet. For me it's not so much a conscious thing as subconscious from all throughout childhood, I don't really see my Dad much anymore.

    But anyway, it's ok to hate your Dad :hug:
    Glad you shared :) :wub:
  7. nagisa

    nagisa Staff Alumni

    I've felt this way about my mom. And like spencer said, it's a very intense feeling. I understand how you feel. I'm around if you ever want to talk about it. :hug:
  8. aki

    aki Well-Known Member

    last night I did this and it really helped. thank you.

    thanks everyone else as well. you're right, it is intense, the only thing to do is ride it out somehow.
  9. Aaron

    Aaron Well-Known Member

    I still have a love/hate relationship with my dad, he died in 1980. :blink:
  10. soliloquise

    soliloquise Well-Known Member

    some parents do deserve to be hated. hang in there x
  11. lauram

    lauram Member

    i'm with you aaron, mine died in 1980 also and i still wish i could kill him. glad i didn't, he wasn't worth the grief it would have caused everyone else.
  12. bluebear

    bluebear Member

    FGS I feel like crying.....I finally found someone to talk to....and it feels a bit better.Thanks for being here.