Ok guys Im not to sure if this will cross the edge to obscene, but here we go. I havent cut in 12 weeks, yay for me!But i have found a new vice that fills the same void. Me and my fiance are now deep into the underworld of uber goth cyber BDSM dom. I have become what our locakl under ground adult community would calla pain puppy. Im not actually inflicting the pain, or wounds on myself, so is that still self harm?