I would really need a help... I'll try to make this post as short as possible. At the begging of summer, i was at the concert where i met this girl. We were both a bit drunk, and we started kissing soon after we met. We gave each other phone numbers and we met a few days later. The story was simmilar. After that, we went on 3 dates. However, before each date, she was unsure if she should go or no... For example, i asked her out and she said she has no time... Then the next day she aksed me if i have some time. I realised she was extremly shy and beside that she was overcoming her ex. It was a bit weird though. When we talked on facebook PM's she showed a lot of interest, we often talked about things that we could do together like going to concert etc... But when i asked her to go out, she always turned me down. I'm pretty sure she was interested in me... we talked a lot during those 6 weeks, and our conversations were sometimes pretty intimate. When school started in Semptemer, we were busy and somehow "lost contacts". After that, we only called each other a few times when we went out to same clubs. Nothin happened between us, we just talked. 1 week ago she called me, after a very long time, and asked me if i wanna go out to club with her on friday with her friend (who i know pretty well). So we went out and the old story happened again. After that (last 9 days), we've been talking a lot. SMS, facebook etc... We were talking about school and we realised that every friday she goes near my school to her guitar lessons, and she asked me when do i finish school, obviously hinting that she wants to see me. But i'm afraid that if i ask her out, she will once again said she doesnt have time or something. I don't want to pressure her or something. But i'm so in love with her, i can't get her out of my head since i saw her for the first time in July. BTW, i'm 20 years old while she is 17. What should i do? I never had girlfriend before (i have high standards and beside that i'm ugly). What should i do? Do i even have any chance? I will appreciate your views.